Strength as Siblings
Research finds that siblings of someone with intellectual and developmental disabilities are likely to be more empathetic toward others.
At Gabriel Homes, Inc. (GHI), we understand the importance of having a loving, balanced family environment. If you’re a sibling of someone with IDD, here are some ways you can best support them and empower yourself.
Education at an Early Age:
With the speed of the internet and extensive IDD resources like The Arc of Northern Viriginia, IDD information communities are forming every day online and in-person. Spaces with families and experts can help you learn more about your sibling and IDD.
“Support groups for young siblings are important because everyone has different questions for all types of disabilities,” says Gina, the sister of a GHI resident. “Children may not understand Down syndrome, so groups can educate siblings on the condition and show them how to be supportive.”
Self-Growth:
Many siblings of residents at Gabriel Homes credit their family members for making them more resilient. They continue to better advocate for their siblings and prepare them for challenges in other areas of life. Use your compassion to empower yourself and others.
“My sibling was always a positive influence on me,” says Dwight, brother of a GHI resident. “When I ran into difficult situations with school or sports, I thought of them because I knew they could overcome it. My sibling made me a better person and more accepting of people with all abilities.”
Plan for the Future:
Prepare your siblings for future changes and responsibilities. Include all your family in long-term planning discussions to delegate future roles and potential caretaking tasks.
“You’re going to need help. Reach out to others and think creatively about how you can help your sibling in every aspect of their lives. Gabriel Homes does a fantastic job explaining challenges and showing solutions, so our sibling gets the help they need.”