Inclusive religious groups build bonds with adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) through accessible services, personalized support, and tailored educational programs.
Inclusive religious groups also can promote belonging and advocate for the rights of individuals with IDD.
“All Are Welcome”
Saint John Neumann (SJN) Catholic Church is a shining example of inclusion for people of all abilities. Following its motto, “All Are Welcome,” SJN seeks out how it can help its members find purpose in themselves or seek out ways they can volunteer.
“Our members can use whatever gifts or passions they have, and we find places where they can use them,” says Jo-Ann Duggan, director of outreach at SJN. “All of us are made differently, so we make spaces for everyone to get involved here, like serving at Mass or starting new ministries.”
Education for Everyone
George Dellagiarino, an SJN member, runs the Adapted Religious Education (ARE) program. ARE, inclusive sessions held before Mass every two weeks, teaches the Gospel to people with IDD and connects them to Catholicism. Having become friends with many Gabriel Homes residents through the group, George’s favorite memories with the Gabriel Homes residents in ARE include getting invited to Stephen’s birthday parties, watching football with Chris, and talking about the New York Giants with Rich.
“I see the residents the way God sees them,” George says. “They have talents and are compassionate for everyone. You don’t see their level of compassion in many people.”
From SJN to the Special Olympics
Chris Brasco, another leader of ARE, has been friends with several churchgoing residents for over 25 years. Through SJN, he searched for ways he could serve his community. Working in ARE, Chris quickly befriended the residents in the group and discovered he had lots in common with everyone.
Chris didn’t leave his friendships at church – he also volunteered in Special Olympics softball and golf. He once joined Dave and Rich for the Virginia Special Olympics softball states competition, where their team won gold medals.
“Over the years, my involvement with the residents evolved into friendships,” Chris says. “We meet before Mass, talk about our lives, and eat breakfast together.”
Chris continues: “They’re an important part of our community because they’re involved everywhere. Chris Y. shakes everyone’s hands at socials, and Rich welcomes every new member at the Knights of Columbus and church choir.”
Members: The Lifeblood of the Church
A banner hangs at SJN reading a quote from St. Francis de Sales: “Be who you are and be that well.” Jo-Ann says those who join church shouldn’t change who they are to try to be accepted. SJN continues to find ways where adults of all abilities, like the Gabriel Homes residents, can be included.
“Going to SJN is my favorite part of the weekend,” says Lucy, a resident at Gabriel Homes. “I like being involved at ARE, and George and Chris are great leaders and friends.”